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Petals-N-Belles Hosts ‘Limitless’ Launch Event

PETALS-N-BELLES, INC. Raises over $2K at ‘Limitless’ Launch event held Tuesday, January 25th at Inc Lounge at the Time Hotel.

Event hosted by WBLS Radio/National TV Personality and Editor-In-Chief of, Egypt Sherrod with a special performance by Spoke-Word Artist Shanelle Gabrielle.

New York City – January 26, 2011 Petals-N-Belles, Inc. ‘LIMITLESS’ launch event held Tuesday evening at New York City’s Inc Lounge raised over $2K to help support the 2011 mentorship programs. The evening, attended by over 100 guests, was hosted by WBLS Radio/National TV personality and Editor-in-Chief of Egypt Sherrod.

Guests included LIMITLESS Host Committee members Jason Bolden, Owner/CEO Jason Bolden Designs; Jodi Brockington, Principal & Connector, NIARA Consulting; Janel Jones, Founder, Zing Events; Demetria Lucas, Essence Magazine/A Belle In Brooklyn, Larry Ossei-Mensah, writer, Centric TV & Arise Magazine and special guest performer and spoken- word artist Shanelle Gabrielle. Read More


Monday, March 1, 2011

As we enter into the third month of the new year, we also enter into a month of celebration. While we make and celebrate out histories everyday, March, Women’s History Month, has been dedicated to honoring the legacies of the history makers and trail blazers who have come before us. Today Petals-N-Belles pays tribute not only to the many women who have come before us, but also to the women who stand amongst us, in the present, and those whose greatness is to come after us. Read more on how we will be celebrating Women’s History through the month of March here.

Today’s blog comes to you via and I was compelled to re-post and blog it because its message is a testament to the power of the work that Petals-N-Belles and many other organizations in our communities do. While we may live in a country that places an overwhelming amount of value on the tangibles (money, houses, cars, jewelry) it’s easy to forget about the value of the intangibles, one of which is TIME….

[Value of Spending Time] Mentor changes teen’s life

By the time Leikia Reynolds was 12 years old, her life was heading down the wrong path. Her grandparents took her in when she was 11 months old. She didn’t know her mother, and her father was serving a 16-year prison sentence. Her grandmother, Dorothy Reynolds, saw the warning signs. “She was getting into fights. She saw other kids with parents, and she felt left out. She called me ‘Mama’ and my husband ‘Daddy,’ ” she recalls. “She didn’t feel good about herself. She was failing in math … she didn’t have good grades.”

Looking back, Reynolds agrees. “I’d just be outside every day until 12 [at night]. I’d be outside playing and being rough.” Her grandmother saw an ad for Big Brothers Big Sisters on TV and knew she had to do something. “Leikia needed somebody in her life who was younger. … I’m kind of sickly, and I couldn’t get out with her a lot to take her places,” she says. “I saw a need for her to have a Big Sister to show her a better life.”

Several organizations like Big Brothers Big Sisters offer mentoring programs. Through this organization, mentors are asked to sign up for two years and spend time with their “little” twice a month. The goal is to spend time, not money, with your mentee. It can be as simple as playing a board game or sharing a pizza. “It’s the most valuable experience that you could ever give someone, and you could ever give yourself. A lot of people think it’s extremely time consuming, but it’s not,” says Nicole Marchand, a Big Sister in Atlanta. “It’s a small price to pay for a huge impact you can make on a young person.”

Reynolds was matched with Nicole Marchand, a Chief Assistant Aistrict Attorney in Atlanta, six years ago. Marchand learned early on the importance of giving back by watching her mother mentor co-workers and other women at their church. After graduating from law school, Marchand was ready to do the same for Reynolds. Marchand spent time with her twice a month and talked to her about making better choices. “When you’re in an environment where that’s what you see, you don’t know you’re doing anything wrong. Leikia was reacting and behaving based on her surroundings,” Marchand says. “I tried to give her a different perspective by letting her see the big picture. She was doing things and not evaluating what she did. … I would make her answer some tough questions and give her some alternatives.”

Reynolds quickly learned to walk away from fights. “When I begin getting into it with people or females, I’ll call Nicole and we’ll start talking about it. She’ll say ignore it. Don’t worry about it. Don’t listen to it … don’t be feeding into that kind of stuff,” she says. Marchand also helped Reynolds turn her grades around. She sat down with her early on to work through math problems, and she encouraged her to get tutoring and get involved in activities at school. “I was headed down the wrong path,” Reynolds says. “She helped me focus on the important things in life. … I need to focus on school. At the end of the day, all I have is school to fall back on to take care of myself.”

Along with finding time to impart knowledge, Marchand tried to expose Reynolds to things she otherwise wouldn’t have been exposed to. She took her to her first concert, to sporting events and even to Disney World. In 2009, when Marchand was an Atlanta Falcons cheerleader, she also encouraged Leikia to get involved in the Falcons Junior Cheerleader Program. “It was fun to look across the field and see her,” Marchand says. “I would tell all the girls on my team, ‘That’s my mentee right there! That’s Leikia!’ … It was very special for me.” But more importantly, Marchand wanted to create a special bond. “She’s more than a Big Sister. She’s like my friend, my mom, everything,” Reynolds says. “I feel like if I was to start doing the wrong thing, I could call on her. Or she would probably call me first to get me back on track.”

Now a junior at Tech High School, Reynolds has brought her grades up, she goes to tutorial to get help with biology, and she’s the point guard on the basketball team. “She’s a very energetic young lady. She’s a diligent worker on and off the court,” says Brian Jones, her basketball coach and physical education teacher. “I can tell there’s a sense of accountability as it relates to her Big Sister. … She has somebody that she’s looking up to that she respects very much.”

Reynolds sees how far she’s come and has watched other teens get pregnant, drop out of school, get into fights and even spend time in jail. She knows her life could have gone in a similar direction if she hadn’t met Marchand. “I’d probably be at Crim [an alternative school] and just probably doing bad things, being ghetto and getting into a lot of fights all the time,” she says. Instead, Reynolds has dreams of going to college and becoming a forensic pathologist. She’s been on college tours with Marchand and with CREW Teens, a college and career readiness program. If she continues on this path, Reynolds will not only be the first in her family to go to college, but the first to graduate high school. “I have big dreams for myself,” Reynolds says. “If my grandma took care of me for so long, it’s time for me to return the favor. And since my dad is incarcerated, when he comes out, he’ll see that I’ll be the first in our family to go to college. And that I’m really doing something with my life.”

By Natalie Angley, CNN